❤️ W E A R T H E D R E S S ❤️
Please don’t suppose that as a result of I’m capable of expose my physique on right here I don’t get hung up on how I look. I swear it’s not all the time ✨physique confidence ✨in my head.
I keep WELL inside my consolation zone.
I’m comfy in black leggings and largely black tops. I’ve 5 totally different tops that I put on on the each day. I don’t trouble shopping for new garments as a result of I do know I’m going to have a battle with myself in some unspecified time in the future when making an attempt them on. I’ll simply hate how I look and get livid when issues don’t match.
It’s all the time been a sensitive topic for me. I bear in mind being younger and searching for new welly boots for varsity and failing to discover a pair that match my calves. It made me depressing. Then yearly when the dreaded ‘faculty buying’ got here round it was the identical distress.
To this present day I’ve by no means owned a pair of welly boots. Nonetheless received’t match my calves 🙃
That’s only one cause as to why I detest searching for garments…
However this 12 months I wish to make an effort to step out of my consolation zone and purchase garments that I like, not simply because it can conceal my physique very well.
As I grew up and into my teenage years the expression ‘black is slimming’ was ENGRAVED into my mind so all I wore was black.
I don’t wish to put on black on a regular basis however as a result of I spent so lengthy wanting to cover and look ‘slimmer’ all I’ve worn is clothes that made me just do that. Conceal.
I didn’t wish to stand out AT ALL.
So within the shadows I stayed, comfy, in my black leggings and black prime 🤣
Final night time I received dressed up for a lockdown date night time and actually, I felt stunning.
I wasn’t anxious about how I appeared. I wasn’t anxious about whether or not my gown was displaying my abdomen or not.
I simply loved feeling stunning in a fantastic gown. ❤️
Don’t conceal within the shadows since you let your insecurities take over. Select the brightest outfit you personal and put on it with delight. Store for issues YOU LOVE.
And put on the rattling gown. ❤️